Browse some magazines for outfit ideas and pick out some clothes you like. If you don’t have a lot of money, check out local thrift stores or resale shops. Decide on a hairstyle that feels good for you. Wake up early enough to groom and get ready before school.
Your sense of humor. Your athleticism. Your good grades.
Instead of thinking, “I am terrible at soccer,” think “When I practice my soccer moves, I feel better. " If something goes wrong, try to stop your thoughts from spiraling. You can think, “I made a mistake, but I can decide how the rest of my day goes. " Make a deal with your friends to correct each other if you hear negative self talk.
Write down positive statements, such as “You are worthy of love and support,” “Everything will work out in the end,” or “You can do it!” You can find great quotes online if you’re struggling to come up with affirmations.
Keeping your shoulders back (leading with your heart). Avoid slouching or hunching. Hold your head high (you can practice balancing a book on your head). Practice your social skills.
Keep your body language confident (head held high, shoulders back). Try to feel good about the way that you look and have a smile on your face. You don’t want to seem like you are trying to get his attention, so don’t stare! Ask a friend to walk and talk with you so that you don’t seem obvious. Your conversation may also catch his attention. You may want to practice walking at home until you feel comfortable.
Glance at him the next time you walk by. Try to catch his eyes during class. Smile if you see him at an assembly or in the lunchroom.
You might say, “I missed class last Friday. Do you have the English notes?” Ask, “Do you know when our permission slips are due?” or “Do you know the date today?” Plan what you will say after he answers. For example, you could introduce yourself and thank him for his help.
Maintain his gaze while you are talking. Keep your gaze soft. Smile and/or laugh.
Keep early interactions short and sweet. You can say, “I have that same notebook. " You can brainstorm a short, funny story ahead of time. For example, try saying, “That reminds me of this time I went to San Jose. " When in doubt, use compliments! Such as, “Wow, you’re really good at math. ”
Gently touching his arm while laughing Brushing against him Pretend to clean a leaf from their back Make it seem like an accident and see how they respond.
“Hey, are you busy this Saturday? Maybe we could catch a movie. " “Would you want to grab a coffee sometime?” “Do you have a date for the dance next week?”
