Accept her way of doing things, especially in the beginning. Aries are known as very domineering, which can be tough if you’re that way too. If she doesn’t get to decide what she wants to do because your ideas are different from hers, the chemistry between you too is likely to suffer. Go with the flow. [1] X Expert Source Jessica LanyadooAstrologer & Psychic Medium Expert Interview. 12 November 2019. Let her be rowdy. Remember the tactful little lady that Audrey Hepburn always played in old movies? That is, most definitely, not your average Aries female. She may talk loud, swear, or act boisterously, but you have to be there, at her side, trying not to wilt under the pressure. A tough act, but a rewarding one.

Play board-, card-, dice-, and sports games with her. Bring a set of cards when you go to a bar and challenge her to a game of Rummy; or bring eight dice along and challenge her to a game of Liar’s Dice. Whatever you do, don’t just let her win; she wants the satisfaction of knowing that she beat you when you were giving it your all.

Women usually like a great walk on the beach, but Aries might rather go kite-surfing instead. Or how about an impromptu swimming challenge past the breakers and back? Go on jogs and runs with her. Yoga and Pilates are rather tame, so try to pick something with a little more verve — something that really gets her heart pumping. Many Aries love rock-climbing. Play and watch sports with her. Women are thought to be disinterested in sports, but usually not Aries. She might not like the passivity of watching sports, but she’s sure to embrace the opportunity to play them. Invite her along when you play pickup basketball with your buddies, or take her on a date to a football game.

Take her on an unplanned date. Try showing up unannounced and whisk her off to a sculpting class, followed by a bar. If she, on the slim chance, has other plans or isn’t ready to jump down the rabbit hole, shrug it off and try again another time. Don’t moan or take it as a slight against your character. This will make her upset.

Don’t rush her into the relationship. If you two are doing things together but haven’t begun calling yourselves a couple, don’t sweat it. It’ll take her time to come around, most likely. Even if she isn’t calling you a boyfriend, you’re benefiting from the arrangement. Don’t forget that.

Aries can have an emotional selfishness which can sometimes detract from the spiritual nature of sex. If you’re expecting sex to be a tantric fusing of two persons’ souls, expect again. Aries probably has a different idea of what it is. On the other hand, many Aries have a romantic side to their personality, one that juts out from their other tendencies. If you learn to nurture this romantic side, which you will as time goes on, you can generally expect sex to look a lot different from how it was in the beginning.

Traveling with her. Nothing says romance more to an Aries than the adventure of travel. Being in a novel place, with different sights, sounds, and customs, will help fuel the fire of her passion. Just make sure she’s ready to take the jump with you. Start a whole new career path or direction in life. Although this is more for you than for her, it can feel like it affects her more than usual because she likes to experience adventure vicariously when she’s not experiencing it firsthand. Just be sure the new change in direction is good for you, too. Be selectively liberal with the money that you spend. The key word here is “selectively. " Aries are notoriously spendthrift, so you also want to balance out her freewheeling wildness with a little bit of tact. But you don’t want to scare her away with any penny-pinching either, so learn to let loose on occasion. It’ll help make her feel validated.

What you’ll have to deal with is teaching her how to compromise. She’ll see compromise as “losing” and stay away from it at all costs. Your goal will be to explain to her that compromise isn’t the same thing as losing — in fact, that it’s essential to a relationship. Learn to communicate your needs in order to keep the relationship humming. Aries can be blissfully unaware of what your needs are if you don’t explicitly let her know. She’s extroverted and communicative, so she expects you to be the same.