When he steps into the shower, wait a few seconds and then knock on the door – you don’t want to scare him completely. Tell him that you’re taking off your clothes and that you’d like to get clean, too – but not before you both get a little dirty. Step into the shower and begin kissing his mouth and neck and caressing his body, and see how excited he gets.
Take him into the bedroom, tell him to lie down, and take control of him. If you want something, ask for it. Have fun with it. Hold him down and don’t give in if he begs for mercy – unless he really means it, of course.
You can also tease him by saying the right things. Tell him that you know he wants you, but that you’re not sure if you’re in the mood – this will drive him wild. Compliment his body and let him know how sexy he is. Then, look down at the floor or distance yourself from him. You can also tease him by caressing your own body. You can say, “This shirt is so tight,” or “I can’t believe how big my chest looks in this bra,” to make him want your body. If you’re wearing a thong, lean down so he gets a peek at it. If you’re wearing a lacy bra, lean toward him a bit so he gets a look at your cleavage in the bra.
Don’t be afraid to kiss him in public. Kiss him, linger a bit, and then pull away with a smile. You don’t have to touch him all the time in public, either. Just put your hand on his thigh, squeeze his knee, or rub his shoulder occasionally. Get close when you can. Stand close to him, whether you’re both looking at a menu or watching a movie. Let him remember how good it feels to be next to you.
Take turns feeding strawberries to each other while dipping them in chocolate or whipped cream. Share a bar of chocolate while you and your boyfriend are having a sensual conversation. Sharing a chocolate and caramel dessert after dinner can make you get more in the mood.
Try “christening” a new room in your house or apartment by making love there. Pull the car over to a private and scenic location and have fun kissing each other. Take it back to high school and have fun kissing your man at the movies. Go on a sexy vacation and have fun having hooking up in a completely new environment. There’s nothing wrong with sneaking off to your friend’s balcony in the middle of a party and stealing a few kisses.
Trying out new moves is a great way to keep things fresh – just make sure you’re not doing anything that doesn’t make you comfortable.
Go hiking together. You’ll have fun enjoying nature, feeling romantic, and enjoying each other’s company. Go camping. You’ll feel romantic – and frisky – if you and your man are alone under the stars. Play pool. Have fun leaning over and letting him see your body as you aim your cue. Do power yoga. Get sweaty on adjacent mats and enjoy looking at each other’s bodies.
If you have the time or money, go on a romantic vacation. Being in a completely new environment while hooking up will drive your boyfriend crazy and will make him see you in a new light.
If you really want to drive your boyfriend crazy, have fun taking a trip to a sex store. Find some outfits that really drive him wild and don’t get embarrassed or feel shy about it.
Look into your man’s eyes when you’re dancing. Let him know how much you want him. If you take a dance class together, you’ll be getting your adrenaline pumping while you enjoy each other’s company.
