Be open to reading authors that do not support your personal perspective.
Go shopping with your mom and/or dad. Talk with the women of your family about how they reached their own personal interpretation of the requirements of hijab.
You can wear the hijab even if you can’t fully commit to wearing it everyday. What matters is that you are trying. It’s better to wear the Hijab sometimes than not to wear it at all. Of course, one’s goal should always be to wear the hijab everyday. Frequently alternating between wearing and not wearing the hijab should be avoided as Allah prefers consistency in acts of worship. Hijab is not just a piece of clothing; it represents modesty. Just because you choose to wear the hijab, doesn’t make you a modest person. Hijab is a way of life.
Shayla: Wrap this rectangular scarf around your head and use a pin to secure it at your shoulders. Khimar: Wear this cape-like scarf wrapped tightly around your head. It will hang loosely at your mid-back. Chador: If you prefer more coverage, choose this floor-length scarf. It is a longer version of the Khimar. Niqab: The niqab is a cloth face covering chosen by many Muslim women to provide additional protection. Burqa: The burqa will cover you from head-to-toe—a small mesh panel over your eyes is the only opening. Traditionally, hijabs come in plain, non-attention-grabbing colors, like black, white, blue, and brown. If you feel comfortable wearing colors and patterns, a fashionable scarf from your local department store may be substituted for a solid colored hijab.
Remember, the type of clothing you wear with your hijab is completely dependent upon your comfort level and understanding of modesty. Ask your parents for a second opinion if you are unsure about a certain piece of clothing. If you prefer full coverage, shop for maxi skirts, wide leg pants, long dresses and abayas. Want to wear skinny jeans or leggings? Pair them under a long flowing top or dress. If you want to wear a tighter outfit, cover it up with an abaya, jilbab or mumu.
For a “no makeup” look, you can use tinted moisturizer, BB cream, or CC cream for your complexion. Add some concealer for correcting any blemishes or dark circles, a little bit of bronzer for your cheekbones, upper forehead and eyelids, and some lip balm for your lips.
If you are open to accessorizing your look, try to chose adornments that are understated. Avoid any ostentatious branded or designer hijabs.
Base your outfits on your personal comfort level. Maxi-skirts, long dresses, and flowy tops are essential staples of a modest wardrobe. Seek a second opinion if you are unsure whether a certain top or bottom is too tight. Full coverage does not have to look dowdy and matronly! Mix and match trendy items or vintage pieces with the staples of your modest wardrobe for a chic look. Pair black jeans with boots, a long wool trench coat, and a turtleneck sweater. You should keep in mind that the reason that you wear full clothes is so that you do not attract men so try to wear clothes that will not show your body shape. Don’t wear short shirts; instead, wear long ones that hide your lower back.
Get creative! Experiment with layer different pieces until you find a look that you are comfortable wearing.
Tie a scarf around your neck to cover a lower neckline. Wear a tank-top with a high neckline under a shirt that is too low in the front.
During holidays, such as Eid, go for a more dramatic, sparkly look. Try a smoky eye and a berry lip! Depending on your skintone, you can pick a berry lipstick with warm or cool undertones. Ask your mom and friends for make-up tips. How do they achieve a natural look?
